@ThinkPink - Well said!!!
Letting go of our inhibitions & fulfilling each other's fantasies was the BEST thing we've ever done for each other in our relationship. We have been together for 5 years and felt that we needed spice up our sex life even more. I admit, as a woman, I wasn't entirely comfortable w/ the idea when he first mentioned it to me. Over the years, I've debated w/ the idea "should I let go or shouldn't?"
Anyway, my new year's resolution to myself was to try something new. So I decided to let go of my inhibitions and explore my own erotic fantasies w/ my man.......and it was a DAMN GOOD THING THAT I DID!!!!!!!!
In order to fully enjoy this sweet kind of lifestyle, the most important thing is a strong foundation in a relationship, built on trust, honesty, love & communication. If a couple doesn't have this, then this lifestyle may break a relationship (ie: jealousy).
I just wanna put it out there, for any couples, who are about to explore this kind of lifestyle....that it often takes time & lots of discussion between couples before fully going through with it. That, my friends, are my 2 cents