Does sex matter?
Absolutely. It can make or break a relationship. How many relationships and marriages break up because of cheating. When there is openness, honestly and commitment then the foundation for a great relationship is a strong starting point. Sex is an enhancer to the relationship just as any other faverot past time, sport or special interest. Why should sex be only with 1 person (expected to be for a life time...yeh right...get real). Its a scientific fact that the euphoria of a new relationship only lasts about 3 years. Then the sex become like any other "chore" or role in the relationship. Letting sex become a chore or common role is such a waste of good love. People need partners, stimulas, erotic fantasies that are accessible to feed our sexual and lustful desire. Cheating isn't the way to go if you want more variety in your personal sexual encounters. Share that idea with your partner, explore your fantasies in reality and let go of your inhibitions. The expectations of monogamus relationships only began when the Christians got their hands on the law.
Thats my 2 cents.
Letting go of our inhibitions & fulfilling each other's fantasies was the BEST thing we've ever done for each other in our relationship. We have been together for 5 years and felt that we needed spice up our sex life even more. I admit, as a woman, I wasn't entirely comfortable w/ the idea when he first mentioned it to me. Over the years, I've debated w/ the idea "should I let go or shouldn't?"
Anyway, my new year's resolution to myself was to try something new. So I decided to let go of my inhibitions and explore my own erotic fantasies w/ my man.......and it was a DAMN GOOD THING THAT I DID!!!!!!!!
In order to fully enjoy this sweet kind of lifestyle, the most important thing is a strong foundation in a relationship, built on trust, honesty, love & communication. If a couple doesn't have this, then this lifestyle may break a relationship (ie: jealousy).
I just wanna put it out there, for any couples, who are about to explore this kind of lifestyle....that it often takes time & lots of discussion between couples before fully going through with it. That, my friends, are my 2 cents
We're going to watch this later tonight (on CP24, www.cp24.com/sexmatters/) The topic is about "Open Relationships" and apparently Aurora&Shlomo will be on LIVE for up to a half hour. Should be interesting
Nice interview A&S, you guys looked great! So did the club ! It gave you a good 'taste' of some of the 'treats' upstairs.
It's always nice to see the lifestyle being discussed in the mainstream press. It normalizes the whole lifestyle (as it should) and encourages people who are just THINKING about trying this type of club to actually do so. From experience, once couples try it, they always go back.
I'm glad I'm able to view it from start to finish. Last night, I was rushing home from work just to watch this segment, but was only too late. Both of you gave a great interview & hopefully encourage more like minded couples to visit Wicked.
Interview was great! The only thing that made me go was when Shlomo was asked, what if Aurora wanted to stop? They sounded like they got caught "off guard".
Otherwise, it was a great representation of the lifestyle !
There wasn't enough time to explain ALL the options and facets of exploring one's sexuality.
I know, on the replay I felt it sounded a bit like it's for him and not for me - which is obviously not the case!
Anyways, the part about the club was really good! lol!
Watched the interview last night and think it was wonderful. For only being to the club the first time last weekend, We're even more wanting to come back after seeing all the goodies upstairs on the show.
Wonderful interview, classy and sexy.